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Tips Mempertahankan Hubungan Supaya Doi Gak ditikung Mantannya

Setelah memiliki pasangan, tentunya kita mengingikan hubungan yang awet dan tahan lama. Saya akan mencoba memberi beberapa tips agar para pembaca memiliki hubungan yang tahan lama. Sebelumnya saya meminta maaf bila artikel ini mungkin sangat tidak bermanfaat bagi kalian yang tidak memiliki pasangan alias jomblo.

Berikut adalah beberapa tipsnya

1. Jaga Komunikasi

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Komunikasi adalah dasar dari setiap hubungan, baik itu sebelum ataupun saat menjalaninya. Komunikasi biasanya dimulai saat pdkt(pendekatan). Alangkah baiknya bila komunikasi sebelum dan saat pacaran memiliki jadwal yang sama.

Biasanya, saat masa pdkt, komunikasi begitu intens dan tidak mengenal waktu. Bangun tidur chatiing-an, saat mandi bawa hp, pup bawa hape, beres mandi bawa hp, bahkan saat mengendarai kendaraan pun kita sempatkan untuk membalas pesan dari sang pujaan.

Namun lucunya, semua berubah ketika menginjak masa pacaran, komunikasi tak se-intens saat pdkt. Biasanya ini terjadi pada kaum pria, karena pria biasanya lebih cepat bosan daripada wanita.

Untuk kalian yang sedang membaca artikel ini, semoga anda tersadar atas komunikasi yang belum kalian perbaiki. Jomblo diem aja, kalian komunikasi aja sama simsimi ya.

Tapi, komunikasi pun kurang baik bila dilakukakan berlebihan, setiap detik komunikasi, setiap kegiatan komunikasi, contohnya ketika malam hari kalian mengirim pesan pada pasanganmu yang isinya “Sayang, aku karaoke dulu ya, PL nya baru iniiiiii” Itu salah. Selain cara dia menghubungi, kegiatan yang dilakukan pun salah.

2. Atur Waktu Pertemuan

Kencan, apel, meet up, mencug,  apapun itu bahasa kalian, pertemuan itu sangat penting untuk menjaga harmonisasi hubungan. Seperti pepatah “didalam pertemuan yang singkat, terdapat sejuta cerita yang terungkap.” Widih.. sadappp.

Sebisa mungkin porsi untuk bertemu dengan pasangan ini tidak berlebihan dan tidak kekurangan. Semua harus sesuai dengan porsinya.

Kekurangan pertemuan dapat menyebabkan malarindu, merindukan kasih sayang, lalu timbulnya rasa curiga dan berakhir dengan putusnya hubungan. Sedangkan jadwal bertemu yang berlebihan dapat menyebabkan rasa bosan, ingin ganti pasangan, khilaf di tempat yang gelap, dan bahaya untuk masa depan.

Sekali lagi, jomblo boleh close page ini ya. Soalnya kalian ga mungkin ketemu sama simsimi.

3. Sesekali Buat Kejutan

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Kejutan adalah sesuatu yang tidak kalah penting dalam suatu hubungan. Kejutan juga bisa membantu memperbaiki hubungan yang sudah mulai rapuh.

Kalian bisa memberi kejutan di hari-hari penting seperti memperingati hari anniversary, hari ulang tahun, atau bahkan kalian bisa membuat kejutan di hari biasa, karena kejutan yang sebenarnya adalah rencana yang sama sekali tidak diketahui. Saya menyarankan kalian memberi kejutan pada hari biasa atau hari yang sama sekali tidak memperingati apapun. Buatlah pasangan kalian berkata “Euweuh angina euweuh hujan, ai ayang kunaon jol bikin hati akang ber flower-flower gini

4. Pergi Ke Tempat Berbeda

Dubai, Meksiko, Senegal, Kongo, ajaklah sesekali pasanganmu pergi kesana, jangan ke bunderan munjul lagi, bunderan munjul lagi. Bila dompet kalian terlalu tipis untuk pergi ke Dubai, maka beberapa destinasi wisata di Majalengka bisa jadi pilihan. Kunjungi tempat tersebut satu persatu, selain memperkuat hubungan bersama pasangan, secara tidak langsung kalian membantu mempopulerkan destinasi wisata Majalengka.

Jomblo yang belum close page saya boleh kasih saran pergilah ke situ cipanten, dan renungi nasib kalian yaa.

5. Saling Menghargai Privasi Masing-Masing

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Ini adalah hal yang paling penting dari semua point. Privasi pribadi, adalah hal yang tak bisa diganggu gugat, masing-masing harus menghargainya. Contoh kecil adalah, isi chat, password sosial media, gallery photo, isi dompet, dll.

Jangan pernah kalian memaksa seseorang untuk memberi privasinya. Terkecuali pasangan kalian memberi sendiri privasi mereka seperti isi chat dll. Pak Ade Dodi Mardianto pernah mengatakan bahwa “Privasi merupakan salah satu dasar dari suatu hubungan, yang memiliki sifat menguatkan atau menghancurkan.” Intinya yang beliau coba katakan adalah, hargai privasi seseorang sebagaimana kita menghargai privasi kita sendiri.

Bahkan seorang jomblo pun memiliki privasi, bukan begitu? BEGITUUUUUUUUUU…..

Semoga dengan membaca tips ini, para pembaca memiliki pencerahan. Terutama yang sudah lama menjalin hubungan, semoga kalian bias lanjut hingga jenjang pernikahan. Tidak lupa semoga Persib juara liga tahun ini, Aamiin Ya Rabbal Alamin. (Yudha Tri Nugraha)

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