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Pada Dasarnya setiap Manusia itu Bertopeng, lalu Bagaimana Cara Kita Membuka Topeng Aslinya?

besoksenin.co – Pada Dasarnya setiap Manusia itu Bertopeng, lalu Bagaimana Cara Kita Membuka Topeng Aslinya, Manusia adalah makhluk sosial yang selalu berinteraksi dengan manusia lainnya. Dalam setiap interaksinya, manusia tentu akan menampilkan Topeng sisi terbaiknya. Tak ada manusia yang benar-benar berperilaku apa adanya.

Bagaimanapun, kita akan menyesuaikan diri dengan kondisi yang diinginkan oleh lingkungan. Misal, kita ke kampus masa cuma pake kolor, kaos oblong, dan sendal jepit? Walaupun sebenarnya kita lebih nyaman berpakaian seperti itu, tapi ada aturan dan etika yang mau tidak mau menuntut kita untuk mengikutinya.

Topeng Setiap Orang

Nah jika setiap manusia pada dasarnya memiliki topeng, lalu bagaimana cara kita mengenal karakter seseorang lebih dalam? Tak kenal, maka ta’aruf sob. Berdasarkan tips dari Umar bin Khattab, ada 3 cara mudah mengetahui kepribadian asli seseorang.

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1. Saat Bepergian (Safar)

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Saat kita bepergian, apalagi sampai harus bermalam seperti camping, tentu akan menyita waktu bersama yang tidak sebentar. Dalam waktu yang tidak sebentar itu, orang akan dengan sendirinya merasa lelah mempertahankan topeng yang sebelumnya ditampilkan. Setidaknya cara dia dalam mengendalikan emosi dan mengatur ego akan muncul ke permukaan.

2. Saat Berbisnis (Muamalah)

Manusia Bekerjasama
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Saat Berbisnis

Saat kamu berbisnis dengan seseorang, maka kamu akan melihat bagaimana kejujurannya, ketelatenannya, atau keadilannya dalam pembagian keuntungan. Pun dalam masalah hutang-piutang. Ingat, seribu rupiah itu uang loh sob. Kalau kamu ngutang, meskipun cuma seribu, ya tetep hutang, kudu dibayar!

3. Saat Diberi Amanah

Manusia Bekerja
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Saat kita diberi tugas (amanah) oleh seseorang, misal tugas nyeuseuhan, ya kudu dilaksanakan. Menepati janji pun termasuk memegang amanah sob. Misal, kita berjanji akan menyerahkan tugas hari Senin jam 10 pagi, yaa kudu tepat jam segitu. Jangan telat! Kalaupun ada halangan, jangan lupa mengabari yaa, karena kamu akan mendzalimi orang lain tanpa disadari. Kamu akan dinilai sebagai orang yang tidak bertanggungjawab.

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Diceritakan pada masa Khalifah Umar bin Khattab, ada seorang laki-laki berkata kepada umar, “sesungguhnya si Fulan itu orangnya baik.” Umar bertanya, “Apakah Engkau pernah bersafar bersamanya?” Lelaki itu menjawab, “Belum pernah.” Umar bertanya, “Apakah engkau pernah bermuamalah (berbisnis) dengannya?” Lelaki itu menjawab, “Belum pernah.” Umar bertanya, “Apakah engkau pernah memberinya amanah?” Lelaki itu menjawab, “Belum pernah.” Umar berkata,”Kalau begitu engkau tidak memiliki ilmu tentangnya. Barangkali engkau hanya melihat dia shalat di masjid.” (Mawa’idz Shohabah)

Jadi, kamu belum dikatakan mengenal seseorang jika kamu dan orang itu belum melakukan perjalanan bersama, melakukan jual-beli (bisnis) bersama, dan belum pernah memberikan tugas (amanah) kepadanya. Tips ini bisa kamu gunakan saat kamu ingin lebih mengenal karakter asli si doi. Karena tak kenal, maka ta’aruf yaa!

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