Untuk Semua Anak Perempuan di Indonesia, Kamu Wajib Baca! Surat Cinta dari Seorang Ibu yang Membongkar Rahasia Ayah kepada Putrinya

Ayah memegang erat tanganku untuk menjaga dan melindungiku, via bayugawtama.com

Saat kamu kecil, kamu pernah jatuh dari sepeda hingga kepalamu berdarah, dan ayah adalah orang yang paling marah. Saat kamu sakit dan dirawat di rumah sakit, ayah juga lah orang yang paling keras melarangmu untuk tidak lagi jajan sembarangan di sekolah. Padahal kamu tahu? Ayah sebenarnya marah kepada dirinya sendiri, ia menyalahkan dirinya karena tidak bisa menjagamu dan melindungimu. Ayah marah dan keras di hadapanmu, tapi ia menangis dan menyesali perbuatannya di belakangmu.

 

Saat kamu beranjak remaja, ayah adalah orang yang paling keras melarangmu memiliki teman dekat. Bagaimana tidak, saat kamu mengenalkan seorang teman laki-laki kepadanya, raut wajahnya langsung berubah menjadi sangat tidak ramah. Ayah menghindarimu, seolah ia sedang mengatakan tidak setuju. Begitupun saat kamu pulang larut malam, ia tidak akan tidur sebelum puas memarahimu. Padahal kamu tahu? Sebenarnya ayah tidak tidur untuk menunggumu pulang, ia sangat-sangat mengkhawatirkanmu. Ayah juga cemburu kepadamu, karena ia bukan lagi satu-satunya pria yang ada di hatimu. Ayah takut kamu lebih mencintainya hingga rela mengorbankan apa saja demi orang lain yang belum tentu menjadi jodohmu.

Ayah mencintaiku dibalik sikap dinginnya, via memelisa.blogspot.com

Saat kamu mulai jauh dari rumah, tinggal di sebuah kost-kostan untuk berkuliah, ayah tidak pernah menelponmu, selalu ibu. Padahal kamu tahu, sebenarnya setiap hari ayahlah orang yang paling cerewet meminta ibu untuk menanyakan kabarmu. Memang ibu yang berbicara dan bertanya ini itu, tapi setiap ibu menelponmu, ayah pasti meminta ibu untuk mengklik tombol loadspeaker agar suaramu terdengar pula olehnya.

 

Saat kamu mulai dewasa, ayah sudah semakin menua dan rambutnya sudah mulai memutih. Tapi ayah tetaplah ayah yang kamu kenal sejak dulu. Bahkan ketika ada seorang pria ingin melamarmu, ayah masih saja menampakkan sikap ketusnya. Ia bertanya-tanya seolah sedang menginterogasi pelaku kejahatan saja. Kamu pun menangis dan marah kepada ayah. Kemudian ibulah yang menghampirimu, memelukmu, dan menenangkanmu. Padahal kamu tahu? Di kamar ayah juga sedang menangis dan ingin berbicara kepadamu, bahwa ayah tidak setuju karena ayah tahu laki-laki itu tidak pantas menjadi suamimu. Terlebih ia yang nantinya akan menggantikan tugas ayah untuk menjaga dan melindungimu.

 

Semoga setelah ibu menceritakan semua tentang ayah, penilaianmu menjadi berubah. Mengenai ayah yang menurutmu sesosok pria yang terlihat dingin, keras, tegas, dan penuh otoritas. Raut wajahnya seolah kaku untuk memperlihatkan sebuah senyuman. Begitupun dengan lidahnya, jarang sekali terucap kata-kata manja, pujian, atau sekedar mengomentari apa yang sudah  kamu lakukan. Berbeda dengan ibu. Ibu selalu menampilkan sikap hangat, menunjukkan banyak perhatian, dan penuh keromantisan. Tapi sebenarnya cinta ayah kepadamu sama seperti ibu. Jadi mulai saat ini, jangan lagi kamu banding-bandingkan ia dengan orang lain.

 

(Buanariksa)

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